It’s so easy to never go

May I impart some unsolicited advice, from one adventurer to another? Land, with its comforting solidity, holds a captivating grip on the soul. Within its embrace dwell the three queens: fear, remorse, and guilt. They lurk in the shadows, ready to seize upon every setback at sea as an opportunity to ensnare us in their web of hesitation and regret.

“Oh, the injury or illness requires time to mend,” they whisper, urging us to prolong our stay ashore. “The toil of earning a livelihood on the boat proved daunting; why not linger a while longer on terra firma?” they coax, seducing us with the familiarity of the known. “Let us first indulge in reuniting with that long-lost friend; there will always be time to return to the boat later,” they tempt, leading us further from the call of the open sea.

Much like the lotus eaters who held Odysseus in their thrall, an injury or downturn can inflict upon us the malaise of land, a numbing lethargy that veils the vibrancy of life’s adventures. Indeed, the path of self-discovery, charted by one’s own means, is far from facile. The siren song of abandoning the sea for the comforts of land often proves irresistible. Yet, as we yield to its allure, we may awaken to find ourselves entrenched in a life devoid of the boundless horizon, our dreams scattered like dust in the wind, the ache of loss weighing heavy upon our hearts.

Should this narrative ring with a dramatic resonance, it signals the insidious spread of poison within our veins. We, who have traversed the tumultuous waters and navigated the treacherous shoals, may not boast the bloom of youth or the allure of beauty, but we carry within us the weight of hard-won wisdom. Like three hags sharing a single eye, we peer through the mists of uncertainty, discerning the ebb and flow of fellow adventurers. We have borne witness to the hesitant departures and the triumphant returns, to the tears shed in both despair and jubilation.

So heed these words, fellow traveler, and let them serve as a beacon amidst the tempest of doubt. For in the crucible of adventure, where the line between triumph and defeat grows ever fainter, it is the courage to embrace the unknown that ultimately defines the spirit of the true wanderer.